Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Engagement

Wow, it has been forever since I have posted! I will do a very quick catch-up of the last few months.

My blog has been dormant partly due to the peace in my life since graduating and making most of the important decisions that had been plaguing me for so long. Without those difficult decisions to anguish over every single day I haven't had as much to write about. Anyway, life has been good. I'm still working at your local discount brokerage firm and living in Salt Lake.

The biggest news in my life is that I'm now engaged. A little over 6 months ago I met the most amazing man and began dating. Brandon and I went on our first date July 8th and became exclusive relatively quick. The last 6 months have been truly incredible, some days more exciting than others but every moment worthwhile. I have never felt so alive!

I won't go into too many details here, but since several people have asked for the story of how we got engaged, I decided to post it for anyone to read. Here goes.

Friday the 8th of January was our 6 month anniversary. I had been looking forward to it for a few weeks (and I'm sure he was too but not for the same reason ;) ). I went to work as usual, planning to pick him up at 5:15 for our date. To be clear, we planned on a nice date but I was in charge of planning what that date would entail.

After I got off work I texted him to tell him where he could locate a CD that I had made for him. It had several songs that were meaningful to us over the last several months. His task was to listen to it before I got there. I showed up at 5:20, roses in hand, and picked him up. First we headed to a park near the E-Center where we walked around on our very first date. July is very different than January though, so we couldn't walk around the park or sit on the grass to talk like we had done before. Instead we sat in the car to talk. I wanted to remind him of where we were when I started to develop a crush at the very beginning. (Picture to the right was taken on that first date from where we were sitting on the grass and watching the sunset. You can even see his leg.)

Next we headed to downtown Salt Lake and went to dinner at Benihana. Brandon had never been and I wanted to show him a little Japanese culture. We ate beef sashimi along with our meals, which was surprisingly good! And the food was very authentic (minus the mango lemonade).

Then we went ice skating at the Gallivan Center. With the music playing, snow on the ground, and Christmas lights still up it was actually quite romantic. I thought I would freeze but it turns out that skating is a bit of a workout. I warmed right up! Except for my nose and fingers, but that's what boyfriends are for... ;)

From there it was getting late, so we drove up behind the state capitol building to see the view. We went up by Ensign Peak and parked the car. After a minute or two of steep climbing, we turned around to take in the view. It was beautiful! At that point I knelt down and pulled out the ring. There is nothing I could ever want more than to spend the rest of my life with the one I love! I asked him to marry me (after a few words to tell him how much I love him, of course). He said yes!

Here's looking forward to The Best Part.

21 comments:

Brandon said...

Ok so can I say that we were freezing so that is why it is a crappy photo... I love when he tells the story. :) He is the best, If you have ever followed this blog it think you understand why I fell in love.

Brandon said...

I not it... clearly I need a proofreader any volunteers?

Bravone said...

Michael and Brandon, congratulations! I am happy for you both.

Mark Johnson said...

Congratulations! I'm so happy for (and jealous of) both of you. Brandon, you're getting an amazing guy. Don't forget to send me an announcement. :)

BB said...

I'm glad I subscribed to your blog Michael. I am so happy for the two of you. I am certain that the road was not an easy one but I am glad that you have landed in a place where you are happy. I wish the two of you the best of luck on the beginning of The Best Part!

MoHoHawaii said...

Congratulations on your engagement. May you have many, many years of happiness together!

When is the wedding planned?

Kyle Rugg said...

As our family continues to grow everyday I could not think of a better addition than Brandon. It has been a pleasure getting to know you, and I look forward to getting to know you now, as a brother! Congratulations to you both. I love you both!!!!!!

Robert said...

I'm really excited to see you and Brandon next time I come down to SLC. I really wish that I could adequately express how excited and happy I am for you. I remember the time that we spent together at BYU and the turmoil we both felt. There's been a lot of change since then and we're both so much the better for it. Michael, I am so impressed and proud for you. And I'm so grateful and glad taht we've been dear friends like we have. I love you man, and I'm so excited and happy for you and Brandon. I really love you both. :)

lanabanana said...

Congratulations to you, both. As you know, I'm lobbying for a wedding in the Northeast! And, a honeymoon in Vermont!! Much love and many, many good wishes for a lifetime of happiness, ahead.

Kengo said...

May you have the best of luck in your future, Michael (and you, too, Brandon).

Romulus said...

So happy for you too!!

Julie said...

AHHH- What a perfect night- except for the freezing part! I am so happy for you two. I am happy to see you, my brother so happy and at peace with your life now. I think everyone deserves that kind of love and happieness in thier life and a life without it is'nt much of a life at all. Now you know why I could'nt stand to be away from Kevin, even for one family vacation! Being in love is one of the best feelings you will ever experience. Now for my sisterly advice- there will be hard times, marriage is not a cake walk but if you both stay true to your commitment to one another you will conquer anything! COMMUNICATION, I can't stress enough- is key. Be open and honest with each other always. Tell each other everything- no secrets! Do not break each others trust, it is hard to get back. Tell eachother I love you often. Do something each day to make life easier for the other, you are now in this together and it should feel like it! Live in the security of knowing you always have someone to come home to thats loves you unconditionally even if you have a bad day. I love you both and wish you all the best! CONGRATS

Rachel said...

I'm happy for you two! Congratulations and the rest of your lives together!

Alan said...

May your dream come true always stay true and always feel like a wonderful dream. Congratulations and love to you both.

Sean said...

Congrats to you both. All the happiness in the world to you!

Public Loneliness said...

Congratulations to both of you. I am so happy for both of you great guys, always so nice and looking so cute in love. Cheers!
Hugs,pl

playasinmar said...

Cheers!

Sarah said...

Thanks for sharing this story. I was going to ask about it the other night when you guys dropped by for my birthday.

We love you both so much and are so excited for you. You are welcome to come borrow our kids any time to practice parenthood!

I remember when Scott and I used to drive up the avenues to gaze down at the city. Good times. Sounds like something to remember!

Kelsey Morris said...

I love you both. :) Congrats.

Stephalumpagus said...

I know I haven't been much of a friend lately, but I'm excited for you both! Congratulations on the engagement! I hope to receive an announcement. :) And please give me a call the next time you're in Provo. It's been way too long since I've seen you!

Brett said...

Congratulations, buddy. I know I'm crazy late, but I'm happy for you. Have you set a date yet?